name='mayhem' said:
When my children are at a mature enough age then they can do as they please. But until that time i have to decide for them what is rite and what is wrong and i have to stand up for my child's rights. I believe in my own mind what i am doing is the right thing.
Well I'm glad that you feel this is the right thing to do. I hope that you are going to use a more realistic judgement of when they are mature enough to learn about sex and sexuality. I can tell you that your 12yo son is, in all honesty, aware of the basic, pardon the phrase, ins and outs of sex. Kids of that age are aware of sex and that they shouldn't let adults know that they are.
This so called standing up for your children's rights is actually a perversion of justice, just because you are not prepared to screen and edit the magazines before you hand it over. This, like many others, is a publication aimed at a large demographic. Young readers have their parents to censor what they feel is inappropriate but by censoring the entire population you liken yourself to the hyperactive censorship boards of Australia or China.
The fact is that the ads are being removed because of your threatened defamation by misleading headlining. You are bullying the publishers into submission.
name='mayhem' said:
As for Violence in video games as far as i am concerned there are rating in place enough for the parent to decide on weather a game is suitable enough. I don't believe in censoring content just aiming it at the correct level and age group that it is intended for.
E.g my son is 12 and is not allowed to play GTA yet i know his friends are allowed but that is up to there parents not me. I will not get involved in a argument over this i think there are enough measures in place for a caring parent to make up there own mind.
My point is not that the parent can decide if it's appropriate its that these games are being advertised in the middle of this
[we shall call hypothetically for arguments sake] magazine aimed at children.
Your problem with the ads, which show no nudity, is that they advertise porn to children. Well these ads for violent video games advertise the games to children. Most violent games can be bought for about €15 to €20 a short while after being released and it's as easy to hide a video game as it is to hide porn. You can bet that if a 12yo wants to get Grand Theft Auto he can. That and you can bet that he has played it at his friends houses.
You seem to have a very naive view of what a 12yo knows. When I was that age I had seen softcore pornography and knew enough about sex to scare the pope. I've even met 12yolds who could drink me (about 17 at the time) under the table. No I never gave them drink or even drank with them but their fondness for spirits was widely known.