kup
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Girlfriend says she needs time by herself to think. Leaves happy and loved up, kisses and hugs and all that jazz. Instantly cold from the next day. The next few days she lies continuously about her whereabouts and today she tried to trick me into meeting her tomorrow so she can end it. She used the false promise of wanting me to come to the docs with her to get a complication of the abortion sorted.
I asked if this was a bad meeting (already suspecting her motives), a "we're breaking up" kind of meeting, and she ignored me for two hours and turned her phone off. Not happy with this lack of respect I walked to hers only to find that at past 1am in the morning, after saying she was at home (and with work at 7am), she is not. No car, no girlfriend.
I have suspected that this was nearing and I'm very much of the opinion that there is another fella involved. Now do I meet her anyway and just take the break up or do I not let her treat me with such disrespect (the trying to trick me about meeting at the docs) and let her come to me to do the break up?
I asked if this was a bad meeting (already suspecting her motives), a "we're breaking up" kind of meeting, and she ignored me for two hours and turned her phone off. Not happy with this lack of respect I walked to hers only to find that at past 1am in the morning, after saying she was at home (and with work at 7am), she is not. No car, no girlfriend.
I have suspected that this was nearing and I'm very much of the opinion that there is another fella involved. Now do I meet her anyway and just take the break up or do I not let her treat me with such disrespect (the trying to trick me about meeting at the docs) and let her come to me to do the break up?