Hi,
Due to buying my first GTX 570 (a Palit) at launch and the 2nd one (an Inno3D Card) second hand here, my cards, while both running the same core speed, are different revisions. This means the newer card is shorter, different layout different cooler etc. yet both play very nicely together.
IF you were to get a pair of cards that were clocked differently then it should revert to the speed of the slower card. Still, using Afterburner it's easy to set clocks etc. on each card. Once installed, and you enable SLI in the drivers, it will apply an SLI profile to every game you have installed - well it did for me. Everything so far has worked well - the one exception being the rather buggy RAGE which is an OpenGL rather than DirectX game and, while you can force it, actually plays SLOWER (MUCH) with SLI enabled. A viable option here is to let card 1 handle the rendering and let card 2 handle the AA...works very well and both cards are equally loaded during gameplay.
One thing to be aware of...the SLI bridge connector is usually supplied with SLI capable motherboards, you DON'T usually get them with the cards...
Best of luck.
Scoob.