ok some results for you.
I first off rest the bios, both using the switch and taking the battery out overnight, no change!
So I took everything out bar the motherboard, powered up, low and behold i get beeps! beeps glorious beeps!
So I try with just the ram in, no beeps other than the one saying no keyboard/hdd detected.
So I try the GPU, works fine, all displays ok...
So I then try putting fans back in, I get to about the 4th/5th motherboard header (for fans) and it happens again, as if that many fans kills it. Disconnect all fans and its happening again...I'll wait a bit and try again.
Sound like a dodgy PSU? i dont know if its anything to do with the power here, but the same cable im using on my pc is currently in the family pc and its working fine, perhaps I should try different cable/different socket? Just strange as if its dying over a certain load?