FML Thread

[Feronix]

Sorry dude, personally I just got screwed by someone I care about a lot so I am pretty bias at the moment

Yeah I read that. You alright mate? If ya need anything you know where to find me!

Ugh idk, I met her a few days before my surgery and we talked for a bit then. Then the surgery and all that recovery shit happened so we barely spoke for a month and started chatting again right after Christmas. Since then I've literally not gone to bed before 3 simply cause we were chatting and we kind of kept each other up.

Even yesterday, we agreed to go to bed at midnight her time (1am here) cause she had college in the morning and I had to go to the rehabilitation centre and it still ended up being half 3.

I already disliked not living in the UK.. :lol:

 

[Tripp]

I'm going off of personal experience and seeing how the girlyfriends I have treat the men they're with like crap, So from everything I know women are just trouble not to mention every bad thing that has ever happened in my life has been because of women, And sadly that's not even an exaggeration.

As you get more experience with women you'll understand dude that it's wiser to keep them at a safe distance.

Dude I wish I could high five you right now, pretty much hit the nail on the head

Yeah I read that. You alright mate? If ya need anything you know where to find me!

Thanks mate to be honest I have been some pretty horrific shit an I am a survivor, I just need some time to dust myself off. Thanks for the thought though

 

[Dicehunter]

Dude I wish I could high five you right now, pretty much hit the nail on the head.

Thanks mate to be honest I have been some pretty horrific shit an I am a survivor, I just need some time to dust myself off. Thanks for the thought though

Psychic high five ^_^

Think of it this way bud, If said person has hurt you then and I hate to use the word respect but they obviously have no respect for you and don't deserve your feelings towards them.

I know it's easier said than done but someone like that doesn't deserve to even be a thought in your mind

 

[Tripp]

Psychic high five ^_^

Think of it this way bud, If said person has hurt you then and I hate to use the word respect but they obviously have no respect for you and don't deserve your feelings towards them.

I know it's easier said than done but someone like that doesn't deserve to even be a thought in your mind

Yeah it doesn't stop my feelings towards them though, ahhh like I said time to dust myself off is all I need, been through having a partner die on me which is a lot harder to deal with, just a shame this is my first relationship since that

 

[Feronix]

Yeah it doesn't stop my feelings towards them though, ahhh like I said time to dust myself off is all I need, been through having a partner die on me which is a lot harder to deal with, just a shame this is my first relationship since that

I'm sorry to hear that

And this is going to sound harsh but you can't expect the next girl you date to replace that and that you'll be together forever. I guess that it's going to take a few to find that new ' the one'. Sorry I couldn't say that any nicer.

On the bright side, you seem like a really nice bloke and I'm pretty confident that one day you're going to randomly run into a lady that's into nearly all the things that you are (music, movies, whatever) and you'll have a great time together. I guess you always run into them when you're not looking...



Or at least that's what I just did <_<

 

[Tripp]

I'm sorry to hear that

And this is going to sound harsh but you can't expect the next girl you date to replace that and that you'll be together forever. I guess that it's going to take a few to find that new ' the one'. Sorry I couldn't say that any nicer.

On the bright side, you seem like a really nice bloke and I'm pretty confident that one day you're going to randomly run into a lady that's into nearly all the things that you are (music, movies, whatever) and you'll have a great time together. I guess you always run into them when you're not looking...



Or at least that's what I just did <_<

No that's not harsh at all man, no one could replace what I had lost an I knew this, it's just tender that stuff happened the way it did an I let myself get deeper in it than I should have.

Thanks though I have come to the same conclusion myself, just hope stuff gets better for my daughters sake kids don't keep shit like this, they need love, care and attention.

 

[TPC]

like dice said, keep a distance and when she doesn't expect anything, hit her with a stick and drag her in your cave, once she wakes up impress her with a dead animal. :lol:

 

[Feronix]

No that's not harsh at all man, no one could replace what I had lost an I knew this, it's just tender that stuff happened the way it did an I let myself get deeper in it than I should have.

Thanks though I have come to the same conclusion myself, just hope stuff gets better for my daughters sake kids don't keep shit like this, they need love, care and attention.

Hmeh, I tend to speak the truth. Sometimes it's exactly what someone needs, other times it's what they don't want to hear.

If it's any consolation, coming from a guy who's parents divorced 2 years ago when I was 17 and have my mum telling me she already wanted to divorce my dad back when I was 2 years old: I wish she had. Cause at least I'd have grown up being used to that situation.

Just focus on your daughter right now, see her as much as you can and give her all the love that you have. But I'm sure I don't need to tell you that

Edit:
How's your recovery going then, TPC?

 

[Tripp]

Hmeh, I tend to speak the truth. Sometimes it's exactly what someone needs, other times it's what they don't want to hear.

If it's any consolation, coming from a guy who's parents divorced 2 years ago when I was 17 and have my mum telling me she already wanted to divorce my dad back when I was 2 years old: I wish she had. Cause at least I'd have grown up being used to that situation.

Just focus on your daughter right now, see her as much as you can and give her all the love that you have. But I'm sure I don't need to tell you that

Edit:
How's your recovery going then, TPC?

Aye you don't me to tell me that I love my kids to bits, and am doing just that. Just hope the shit passes soon an she can be civil

 

[TPC]

Well my recovery fits well into this thread.
I have some type of insomnia because of my chemo pills (that's why I'm up now and was up at 4am some other days) and evertime another pill cycle starts (it's always one week pills one week off etc.) I get on the exact second day a seizure, every goddam time. It is really bugging me, thank God I can't express myself well in English otherwise here would be black bars and little stars f*** everywhere. Should have heard me yesterday in German :lol:
Well I'm trying to keep funny like I always do but that doesn't work always too.
I'm glad I live together with someone otherwise this all would have ended pretty quickly :mellow:

 

[Tripp]

Well my recovery fits well into this thread.
I have some type of insomnia because of my chemo pills (that's why I'm up now and was up at 4am some other days) and evertime another pill cycle starts (it's always one week pills one week off etc.) I get on the exact second day a seizure, every goddam time. It is really bugging me, thank God I can't express myself well in English otherwise here would be black bars and little stars f*** everywhere. Should have heard me yesterday in German :lol:
Well I'm trying to keep funny like I always do but that doesn't work always too.
I'm glad I live together with someone otherwise this all would have ended pretty quickly :mellow:

I don't envy you, though unfortunately u must join you in the insomnia dance (proceeds to do the macarena) as I am an insomniac too

 

[AverageNinja]

Sorry dude, personally I just got screwed by someone I care about a lot so I am pretty bias at the moment

Yeah I read that somewhere too. Very sorry to hear that man, I hope things will get better for you from now on. And as Feronix said, you seem like a really nice guy, so I'm sure you'll meet someone who actually deserves you.

I guess I can talk about being screwed over by a girl too.

There was this girl I was talking with in 2013 (Yeah it's quite a while ago). Feronix Immediately knew who she was and that she went on a vacation to Turkey :lol:

Everything went extremely well for about 4 months, then she suddenly started to act a bit different. After a while she told me I lived too far away, she wouldn't be ready for a relationship any time soon and what not. A month later she was in a relationship with one of my (good) friends. That stung a little :lol:

Well my recovery fits well into this thread.
I have some type of insomnia because of my chemo pills (that's why I'm up now and was up at 4am some other days) and evertime another pill cycle starts (it's always one week pills one week off etc.) I get on the exact second day a seizure, every goddam time. It is really bugging me, thank God I can't express myself well in English otherwise here would be black bars and little stars f*** everywhere. Should have heard me yesterday in German :lol:
Well I'm trying to keep funny like I always do but that doesn't work always too.
I'm glad I live together with someone otherwise this all would have ended pretty quickly :mellow:

Sorry to hear that too man. Insomnia and seizures are no fun..

 

[ShaunB-91]

Do you want my advice?

 

[Feronix]

Seizures eh? That's definitely bad. Have you talked to any doctor about that yet? Maybe they can put you on different medication? Sorry, my knowledge about medicine and your condition is really limited, but if the medication causes a side effect that bad I'm assuming you've gone to the doctor to talk about it?

I mean, worst I get is I'm really tired and sometimes my tongue swells up leaving me unable to talk/eat/drink for a bit (10-30 minutes) and it already annoys me.



@AN
Sorry mate, I was bored and you're quite easy to stalk online

Sorry to hear that things didn't work out though. Her dating your friend, who lives in the same place as you do I'm assuming, is definitely a shit move of her, but it does show that's she not worth it. At all.

 

[barnsley]

Go for it Feronix! All women are different.

Long distance relationships are a pain though but hey, life is short

 

[Feronix]

Go for it Feronix! All women are different.

Long distance relationships are a pain though but hey, life is short

Gaaahhh I guess! But if I'm in a relationship at least I'll want to be able to see her and stuff. I mean I could live with a girl living on the other side of the country, but in a whole other country is different. Especially with that stupid sea in the middle

Idk, I've had a massive crush on my best female friend for like 2 years and since then I've not really dated anyone else as I kept comparing them to her and no one came close. This one needed 5 days to make me forget about her :lol:

 

[barnsley]

Idk, I've had a massive crush on my best female friend for like 2 years and since then I've not really dated anyone else as I kept comparing them to her and no one came close. This one needed 5 days to make me forget about her :lol:

I know the feeling I was in that situation for a while. Its amazing how quickly your attention switches when you meet the right (for the time) person.

 

[ShaunB-91]

Get on the plane fella, I'll come meet you.

 

[Feronix]

I know the feeling I was in that situation for a while. Its amazing how quickly your attention switches when you meet the right (for the time) person.

Yeah it's weird.

Why does she have to live so far away though? That's just unfair

Get on the plane fella, I'll come meet you.

Haha, I'd love to!

 

[Thelosouvlakia]

Long distance relationships are a pain though but hey, life is short

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