I know the feeling brother. Before I left the UK for the USA I had the most incredible set up. I had Crown Macrom 10" mids with tweeters in, a Rogers E40A valve amp worth about four grand and a Cerwin Vega Intense trapezoidal subwoofer. T36, IIRC.
It was quality meets loud. Oh yeah, and a 2kw amp feeding the Stroker 18 that was in there
When I left for the USA I sold it all, and then had no hifi at all between 2000 and 2008. When I arrived back my cousin gave me a set of Missions and an old Sherwood receiver from the 90s but yeah, that was it until I built up our cinema rig using nothing but Scandyna and valve amps about two years back.
I'd forgotten what proper hifi stuff sounded like tbh, making do with cheap headphones and no amps.
Ortofon started out competing with Stanton back in the 90s. Stantons were harder wearing, but inevitably rather bass heavy and a bit woolly. Ortofon were far more accurate and sounded much better, and at the time they were cheaper too.
Me not being a DJ I always used to use Ortofons.
I wouldn't mind a Grado, but as I say - grands man, grands.