The problems of a teenager

[AverageNinja]

Hi y'all!
Just decided to share a few of my problems as a teenager
1. No confidence. I like this girl, and I'm pretty sure she likes me as well. Her pupils grow big when she looks at me, always smiles at me etc. Still, I don't have the balls to ask her out. It doesn't help that she's always with friends.
2. No money, too much things to spend money on. I've now finally got a job, although it doesn't pay very well. Also I have a lot of things to spend money on. I want a new PC, but my electric guitar just died, so I need a new one as well. Things like this suck.
I have a lot more things like this, but these two are the worst.
What were you problems as a teenager? Tips for me are welcome as well

 

[SEBAR]

Teens everywhere have the same problems and problems like these are timeless. I am 38 years old and I remember having similar problems as a teen. As for the girl, I say go for it even if she is with her friends. It sound like she likes you and her friends will prob like you as well. At the very least you could make a few more friends. If you dont you will never forgive yourself. Good luck

 

[AverageNinja]

Teens everywhere have the same problems and problems like these are timeless. I am 38 years old and I remember having similar problems as a teen. As for the girl, I say go for it even if she is with her friends. It sound like she likes you and her friends will prob like you as well. At the very least you could make a few more friends. If you dont you will never forgive yourself. Good luck

Thanks for the reply!
I could ask her out using skype, but I would prefer to say it in real life as it's more personal

 

[Lollipop]

I don't know that feel... Doesn't help that I am slightly autistic tho.

 

[Josh Weston]

You know that internet saying, 'I got me some ****, bitches love ****.'? Well, if **** is confidence, then I agree.
Not overly confident, but to be truly comfortable with yourself etc.
Infact, I have a lovely video that, although was too late for me, met with what I came to realise anyway.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LW5ftkoWIgQ&feature=plcp

I know you're not going for 'pick-up', but it still applies.

If you really like this girl, go for it I know very well how hard it is to bite the bullet, but it's got to be done. No matter the outcome, you feel a whole lot better about everything.

Good luck, dude.

 

[ruairi.C]

Problems of a teenager

Not enough loob













yes i kid

 

[Innocent159]

At least girls and confidence aren't one of my problems but money, i so need a job... and time i wish i had more.

 

[PapaSmurf6768]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NAj26rVWK14

Haha I kid too man, I know what you're talking about. Just gotta be yourself and do what feels right.

 

[AverageNinja]

I think I'm probably friendzoned. Well, at least I tried.

 

[Goldskis45]

Dude, if you're not sure, strait up ask.

 

[AverageNinja]

Dude, if you're not sure, strait up ask.

I said to her that I kind of liked her. She said: I think you're quite friendly as well

 

[wassupdoc]

I just gathered the balls to ask out a girl that has "mutual interest" I wish I'd done it sooner dude, after you'll think "wow what was all the bloody fuss about!" Just got back from hers for the third night in a row

 

[seumasbeathan]

^Get some :L

As for you Ninja just go up to here and say "Will you go out with me?" She says yes then thats great, she says no then oh well plenty more fish in the sea and all that

 

[Avro]

As another teen I definitely feel your problems, until I started going out with my friends who were pretty confident and I just went fuck it and got the confidence myself to ask someone out and it worked so well.
Just go up to her and if she's with her friends say 'Can I speak to your friend for a moment?' take her to the side and ask her out. It gets a lot easier.

 

[AverageNinja]

Well, I'm pretty sure I'm not in the friendzone. Worse. She's completely ignoring me. Well, I'm kind of sad, or actually, extremely sad. But with her ignoring me I also know she's not as friendly as I thought. Better luck next time...
Greetings from, a really sad, Ninja.

 

[Josh Weston]

Something i've noticed after getting with a girl only for things not to turn out well; after you get over the initial 'crush' phase, where everything the girl does is perceived through rose tinted lenses, you discover you were ignoring a lot of faults. You end up realising that you've saved yourself a lot of hassle.

Always look at the bright side of life, yo.

 

[wassupdoc]

Thanks for inspiring confidence in me