Now I'm going to appreciate that there's likely to be a personal issue as to why she's bringing up the 4, and I do h8 it when personalized examples are drawn into these debates, but..
If she's not drawing anything for any of them, I'm more than happy. There are examples of how parents can end up on their own which are unfortunate reminders of life. Usually in the form of deaths. But to be fair, after a death - I'd be happy for a single parent to draw stuff - divorce, hey both parents are still available to get cash off. If it's not suitable enough, make it more suitable.
And as a personal point, I'm completely not at ease with parents dumping off their kids and going to work (under the age of about 4, or atleast talking and being in pre-school). Family - fine. Carers, day centers - no freakin way.
name='tinytomlogan' said:
The benifits thing I agree with but what you are planning rasta is nothing short of barbaric. I know plenty of people with large families and work to pay for them.
Working and paying for them - that's fine, where's the issue ?
name='tinytomlogan' said:
From whats been written it sounds like youve been burned at some point by a woman.
Nope. I have been asked to father by two women whilst I was in my 20s, and I'll say again, not a freakin chance.