The million dollar question which still hasn't been answered even with that huge thread your started all that time ago
Truth is I've yet to see something that definitively proves it either way. My feeling is that 2gb will be enough for a good while yet. Do textures load slower when cards run out of vRAM i.e. "texture pop-in". Maybe.
The truth is though that you can be sensible with your vRAM. I just ran Unigine Heaven 3.0 benchmark on full settings comparing a AAx8 to AA off bench run and noted the vRAM usage (my cards are 7950s with 3GB vRAM):
AA x8 = 2.1gb vRAM
AA off = 1.1GB vRAM
If you showed me a video and asked me which one was which, could I tell? Hell no. That does differ in certain games but AA is renowned for crushing your hardware for little apparent extra beauty and usually 2 or 4xMSAA is enough which will still drastically reduce the vRAM usage I'd bet.
Also, my cards used 2.1GB, does that mean that a 2gb gtx 680 is going to make hard work out of it and have texture pop ins everywhere? I seriously doubt it...