Exactly, it's so easy to miss the signals that you are actually addicted to something, so I find it funny when people claim this isn't a sickness/mental problem
Your brain craves it, your body provides it. How is that not a disorder. I don't care if people say "coming from someone who is <autistic/has ADD/asbergers/insert issue here>, I don't see this as a disorder", well good for you. I see it as a sickness, the NHS now sees it and thank god people can get the help they need. Sadly considering its not detrimental to the body like substances, seeking help yourself may be a more difficult step to take given many will be in denial and not see it as harmful.
I get that there maybe nothing else to do in your neighbourhood. But to spend the whole day doing it, that is an issue to me. You get out of life what you put into it, while I love gaming in moderation, I would never spend all my time doing it. I get bored of doing the same thing, I need to rotate.
Things like what Alien does with his bikes/Amps etc, that's a perfect hobby to tear yourself away.
Now the thing that has me most curious, is what kind of treatment to they have planned for this. The friend I mentioned still lives in the UK so having someone who was almost like a "bestie" turn into a distant shadow is tough.
There is a huge problem in the UK at the moment. A huge problem.
Basically if you are diagnosed by a professional with a condition that meets the requirements then there is money for you. For many years I had absolutely nothing (no more than a dosser who lives on the dole) which wasn't cool, given my life can be expensive. Like, taxis because I am agoraphobic and so on. None of that comes cheap. So, once you are diagnosed and you qualify then there are several means of getting financial help.
But.
The UK govt has realised this, and thus they have instructed doctors and psychiatrists to limit the number of people they diagnose, hence reducing the costs to the govt.
When we hit that recession in 2008 the first thing out of my mouth to my mother was "Uh oh, here it comes... They are going to make the sick and needy and poor pay for this". I refer, of course, to the big banking F up where they basically lost most of our cash.
And believe me when I say this, the Tories have committed genocide on the sick, disabled and mentally ill. That is where they are clawing back the cash. So yes, they have these benefits and on the surface it all looks great, but they are becoming almost impossible to get.
My mother has a friend, and her daughter has a child with this severe disorder. Like, the kid can't even talk and just sits there dribbling. And the doctors etc will not diagnose the child with the disorder he has because they know full well if they do then she will be able to claim all of these benefits.
About 18 months ago my mobility allowance (that I was using for taxis and so on) was stopped, because a Conservative mental health "professional" asked me to walk 6ft and then declared I did not need any help. Even though I am agoraphobic, autistic and have Bipolar disorder. They actually broke EU law and regulation.
So yeah, getting diagnosed with one of the big 5? (like Autism, Bipolar etc) is becoming close to impossible. They even have code numbers now for mental illnesses and they dictate what you quality for financially.
Now don't get me wrong I do OK and I have a reasonable life now I am getting the help I need. My brother doesn't like it, of course. He thinks I should be living in poverty for not going to work but I just think he doesn't understand it. At all. Why should I live like a pauper because I am too sick for anything else?