Well we warned you about having only a 480, we told you that a XTX is better then the PE and its up to you if you want 1850 or 3000 rpm fans.
If your posting about how you aren't taking our advice then people won't see any point in trying to help. So you have our opinions on your questions and now its up to you if you want to listen or not. I personally got a high fpi rad for my first build (thinking just like you) and was stuck with it for dimension reasons for some time and finally got a build that will fit something else. So if you want, you can make the same mistake I did.
Hey I love you guys' advice so far, it may seem as if I am not listening and just doing what I want to do regardless but i can assure you that's not the case. It's just me being a noob trying to do the impossible while having no idea what I am doing.
The reason why it may seem as if I am not interested in advice is because I am more interested in the why and why not. I want to learn and understand more then anything else.
All I know is from what I have heard people say, it's much like when you are picking up a GPU for the first time and base your choice on the fact that "game x looks really good with gpu y on youtube" while in fact there is much more to it then that and different gpus are better for different things etc.
It's the same with watercooling, only much more complicated. I want to be able to see for myself why solution x is better then y. Of course to a noob like me it's not going to make any sense because I don't understand everything about watercooling yet which is why it may seem as if I am being a stubborn know it all.