well, if you wanna know what i did to get it to 8x, i actually don't have a good explanation. all i can say is that i tried putting the card in the secondary pci-e slot, changed the "Dual/Single" card thingy to Single, then retuened it to the primary slot, and back to "Dual Mode".
if you think of it, it makes sense that i only get 8x now that i'm on Dual Video Cards mode, but when i tried putting it in single,the screen didn't get any input from the card, so basiclly i'm stumped and have no idea what the hell to do now.
i will try putting it in single mode again, but don't excpect much. anyways thanks again everyone.