right lately, i been getting alot of crap from google and stuff, i only wanna use gmail and non of the other services, and i cant seem to figure out how to remove the others
You need to unlink your Google+ profile from all your other Google applications. Had the same issue not so long ago. Suddenly my real name was being displayed as my YouTube user name without me being able to change it back. You now need a Google account in order to use any of their services which automatically creates a Google+ profile. Anyway, I then had to delete my Google+ profile cause apparently they had linked it to my YouTube account or something. They made everything really complicated when Google took over YouTube and they've massively expanded the whole social media thing since then.