GirlFriend!!?? -crys-

[Dav0s]

she annoyed me anyway

 

[Mullet]

move on buddy....you are but a youg un and as Kemp said there are plenty more birds out there....I know your pain must be hard to deal with...sit back...open a bottle of JD (or whatever)....whang on some classic 'Somewhere in Time' album tracks and look forward...time is wasted looking back...grab the future with both hands bud!!!

Good luck...

 

[MikeEnIke]

she annoyed me anyway

Twice in a minute: QFT

 

[JN]

IMO your youth is for being with your mates, getting drunk, having fun doing what YOU want to do.

Have some fun, get some decent grades at school, don't get tied up in long term relationships until you are much older.

 

[FarFarAway]

IMO your youth is for being with your mates, getting drunk, having fun doing what YOU want to do.

Have some fun, get some decent grades at school, don't get tied up in long term relationships until you are much older.

Or buying expensive computer parts when you first get a credit card

 

[JN]

Or buying expensive computer parts when you first get a credit card

I wish i could turn back the clock and slap myself in the face on the day I thought that was a good idea...

 

[FarFarAway]

I wish i could turn back the clock and slap myself in the face on the day I thought that was a good idea...

aye me too when I thought an £8k car loan was ok to afford straight out of Uni

 

[mVp24]

Twice in a minute: QFT

Agreed.

Tbh, she wasn't that hot either. =) Don't worry Tox, you'll find someone better.

 

[llwyd]

sounds like a pretty lame reason to end a 2.5 yr relationship. dont get hung up on someone like that, just drink yourself happy and go out and enjoy yourself. you will realize just how much you were missing out on don't worry about settling down for a good few years yet

 

[mVp24]

Twice in a minute: QFT

Hey dude please don't go and get drunk and say "because OC3D told me to." Lol.

 

[mrs llwyd]

the timing is really bad and i agree that it sounds like a vague and pretty gutting reason but i disagree that alcohol is the answer...you need a clear head to deal with this and move on

 

[mVp24]

the timing is really bad and i agree that it sounds like a vague and pretty gutting reason but i disagree that alcohol is the answer...you need a clear head to deal with this and move on

I agree with the alcohol part but thats prolly cuz I'm a retarded no fun 14 year old =(

 

[Mr. Popo]

Don't go Vodka or Whiskey, but Guinness wont hurt.

 

[NickS]

Yeah liquor isn't a good idea at a young age. Beer is good though. Wine? Unless you're an idiot. Wine gives you the worst hangover (well the worst headache) you'll ever have.

 

[FragTek]

I wish i could turn back the clock and slap myself in the face on the day I thought that was a good idea...

RAWFUL! That's just about going to make it into my sig I think, that

just mad me spray Coke Zero out my nose and coat my Eclipse.

/me raises hand. I'm a huge culprit of this too.

 

[Toxteth O'Grady]

This maybe a computing forum but I like you lot and trust you lot!

Humor is the best medicine and since this is a techie forum the advice here may help.

But seriously.........you'll never forget your first love; nobody ever does. But it's very rare for someone to spend the rest of their life with GF numero uno. You'll get over it (eventually) - we all did.



TOG

 

[PV5150]

As you would of guess I still love her! I want her back. She says she doesn't want to waste energy on me she need the energy for other more important things...

Anyone care to comment...?

I guess I came here for abit of comfort.

Mods - If this is well, inappropriate for the forums please close..

I feel for you mate; it's always hard at first but gets easier as time goes on. There has been a lot of valid advice given here, you need to just sit down, let the world stop spinning for a few moments and process it. I have some advice that I would like to share with you, and it has always helped me in the past. Never date a girl because you feel like you have/need to have a girlfriend (lonely, to replace an ex etc). You'll find that if you enter a relationship in the frame of mind that this approach gives, you aren't expectant of anything, nor will you bring unresolved garbage to a new relationship. Dont' call and harass her as you'll only sound desperate, and you can go on without her. I mean who knows, atm you are leading different paths in life (your goals are different to hers) but sometime in the future your paths may cross again. Or alternatively, you may come across the best chick ever, someone who'll appreciate you for who you are....with no compromises.

So in conclusion: enjoy being single (you are only young); enjoy the company of your mates (your closest mates will always be there for you, a gf may not be) ; put your head down and concentrate on your studies; save your money and enjoy life period! Oh and contrary to some of the other advice, alcohol is not good for making decisions on or forgetting about things (they always come back). But it is great just to enjoy with your mates

Take care mate

PV

 

[jiffz]

Yeah the ending of ur first proper relationship is the

test, but once you get over it, you'll be a stronger person and know you can take it. You'll end up being more confident with future relationships, which I'm sure u'll have a fair few

Go out and have a laugh! Do ya best not to go back because the relationship isnt the same the 2nd/3rd time around, just ends up hurting more the next time it ends...

Be independant and strong and like oxo said, she'll probably want you more for that!

 

[Ares210]

A little off topic but with all this talk of have a drink with your mates, what is the drinking age across the pond?

Here in the US it's 21

 

[MikeEnIke]

18 Publicly, though I think it's within natural custom to have a glass of wine with dinner or whatever, they aren't idiots with alcohol like we are (ALL the time ).