I think i finally cracked it, it looks like mems can run stable only with two speed on my p35ds3p 800MHz and 1000MHz, ran them on 800 and 1000 stable no errors 3h blend test, thing is if i want to run then at 1000MHz (5,5,5,15 rest settings on auto) my cpu can be oced only to 3.33GHz(fsb 417) fsb to mem ratio 5:6, if i want to run them in 1:1 ratio my cpu would have to run at 4GHz(fsb500)and im not sure if I can run that speed on my mobo.