Why are decent women getting harder to find ?

looz said:
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nah, i'm not the type who gets friendzoned. i'm the type who just doesn't give a shit because i don't really think it's an achievement in life to be in a relationship. i think feminists are annoying, but i think that about pretty much everyone who is crying about how unfair life is.
call me awkward of whatever but i don't get what makes people ignore all logic just to be with another human being. we call ourselves an advanced species but for some reason primal instincts prevail.
 
Then again it's debatable if long-term relationship is a primal instinct but I'd rather not open that can of worms.
 
I think finding a good girlfriend is not hard as long as you are not looking for one. Meaning that when you try and find the perfect woman you won't find her. Live your life and when someone joins your patch so be it.

I'm just a teen with maybe little life experience but this is what I know. Looking for someone makes you do the wrongs things and makes you choose poorly. But when you meet someone at random without any goals for your relationship and just let it grow. Things will go fine, either you have just met a great new friend or perhaps your future wife.

I used to look for a decent girl and ended up with whatever girl caught my attention and those are the girls you don't really want. My last relationship was with a girl who didn't stand out and I was happy for more then 2 years until she moved and things didn't work out any more. And now I met a new girl and we are together for a bit over a year by now. I met her just in my college/university and we bumped into eachother and kept contact.. and so it began.

Not judging anyone here, but this is how it has worked out for me and I hope that I might have been of some help.
BTW there are also girls who are in the spotlight and want to draw attention and that are good girls. But just didn't work out for me.
 
Me and my missus have very little in common which make our relationship perfect as we're always learning something new, neither of us were actually looking for a relationship either it just happened. We had been neighbours and friends for couple of years before the relationship started but I must say it's been a fantastic 4 years so far sort of Friendship 2.0.

What I will say though is don't go looking for the perfect relationship they don't exist, I believe in what happens simply happens
 
I actually met my girlfriend through gaming and revamping a survival horror forum. This was 5 years ago and now she lives in the UK and we have a flat together.

If at first you don't succeed, there's always this one.

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I met my better half (nearly 8yrs) without trying........I'll explain...

I was a bar tender just doing my normal shift work, greeting people coming in and serving people (as you do) and I over-heard that it was a birthday night. As I had a few drinks already bought for me and was kinda stock piling them for a weekend free night out, I bought the birthday girl a drink.......
(.....skip forward to end of the shift)
Just as I left work I was called into the club next door and we sat and chilled out with a few more drinks, one thing led to another and 8 years (this May) later I'm still with her....

What I'm trying to say is, that if you've been 'trying' and not getting anywhere, maybe try 'not trying' and who knows maybe something will just click. :)


QuietOne said:
If at first you don't succeed, there's always this one.

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:lol:
 
Casual generalisation...

Some girls are dicks. Some guys are dicks. Good and bad everywhere. I'm in a long distance relationship with a Norwegian girl. As soon as people find out I'm dating a Norwegian girl, they instantly assume she's a tall, self-obsessed blonde bimbo who cares more about looks and social status rather than anything "real."

I hate generalisation. You've had bad luck. But let's be honest, who hasn't?
 
Devil's advocate: try finding guys like that as well. Most of us aren't exactly the decent sort either.

Might be worth stopping the search and just go with the flow, see what gets thrown at you and it could surprise you. Sometimes these things grow on you slowly instead of jumping at you. Downside of course is that it can end in a nasty piece of friend zoning.
 
Agree with the above, the right one will come along when you're not expecting or looking for her.

Until then, enjoy being up to your nuts in sluts!
 
Tara posted a big with her chest hanging out of her vest top saying "I sent this to a boy I like" now thats the type of girl you want! Haha!

Mr. Kambo wanted to know if she squats. :|
 
Well I was kind of seeing a girl lately but it ended prematurely due to the fact she had a few other men on the side even though she seemed so enthusiastic about going out for drinks, Meeting up, spending nights over.
So weird though because she seemed really decent and really didn't seem like the deceitful type.
 
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