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PP Mguire

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Ok im not trying to be emo or kiddish or want attention or anything but i just figured id let you know. If i suddenly dissapear for a while its becasue ive gone into a serious mental break down and wont be on for a while. :( Some things have happend and some other things i think are going to happen and i dont know if i will be able to take it. So if i just all of sudden drop off the face of the interwebz wish me luck. It will take alot to bring me back.
 
Thanx guys. I hope ill be ok. Its really quite personal and im afraid so many people will make fun of me but if you must know ill tell through a PM or messenger.
 
I had a bad time, years ago when people close to me died & my parents split up etc (all around the same time) :(

It really changed my life and the way I look at certain things. I ended up listening to stuff like Marilyn Manson and it sort of helped me thru some of it.

I guess most people go thru a bad time sometime in their life, it's sometimes hard for some to stray from drink/drugs but you get thru it in the end.

Hope you are ok and get thru it ok :)
 
Whatever it is I hope you get it all sorted. I am not going to ask cos thats not me, but if you do need to say something and share it then I am a listening ear. You know how to pm if you need to.

A problem shared is a problem halved. :) share it enough and it stops being a problem-its good to talk.
 
one thing i found out usefull is to have a good friend but that is a girl , tell them, they will understand you better
 
I guess most people go thru a bad time sometime in their life, it's sometimes hard for some to stray from drink/drugs but you get thru it in the end.
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Im clean all the way. No worries there :)

A problem shared is a problem halved. share it enough and it stops being a problem-its good to talk.
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I know this all to well. Ive talked to a few close friends about this and they just dont know what to say.

one thing i found out usefull is to have a good friend but that is a girl , tell them, they will understand you better
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I have many close chick friends. But in this situation not even they know what to tell me :( Thanx everybody for being supportive. I really appreciate it. Ive been thinking about it and after this weekend i will probably spill the beans. I guess since it was my decision in life i probably shouldnt be ashamed of it but with the subject at hand i dont want people to really make fun of me. It was a really stupid thing to do :(
 
im known to my mates as the come back king, i've gotten myself into a state a few times in my pretty short life so far. People close to you passing away, then theres the good ol favourite, women!!! none of these help.

I put it down to one reason as to why im still here. I found out how to talk to people about my problems. Really does help me and think you should give it a try.

Hope it all works out ok and keep your head up.
 
then theres the good ol favourite, women!!!
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Hit the nail on the head right there.

Well since i got some time i might as well just type it out. Seems you guys really want to try and help even though i dont think theres anything that can be done besides moral support.

Long story short. When i was in school i met a girl and fell in love with her. Her names Jennifer. I was 17 and she was 13. (yes i know) Me a SR in high school and her an 8th grader. I took a chance with someone so young and it was pretty dumb. She was really mature for her age and i even pulled alot of strings to get her to go to the prom with me. Well i got a chance for 4 years tuition to UT in Austin and also to be the drum captain in their marching band. Gave it to a close friend of mine because i waned to stay here with her. Well were coming up on our 1 year and everything hits the fan on Feb 12th. (1 year was feb 25th). All my friends said wait man wait. She will get to her senses. Well 4 weeks later and alot of drama passed and were back together. Well now she says she dosent feel anything and she thinks our love dissapeared. Even though all of my chick friends (2 being REAL close) say she really does love me. Im talking to her about it now and she still says the same thing (through texting, shes at school). Im her first love and first for everything and she will always love me.

Its easy to say i can just move on and get somebody else but the problem is i cant. Theres alot i really cant say becasue its just to embarrassing even more so than giving away my tuition. I just love her and i dont think i could feel for anybody else becasue shes pretty much my life. If it wasnt for her id still be in school or be a drop out. I guess you can call me lame with my old fasioned love story but i really dont care right now. Ive given up a life and a half to be with her and just because shes 15 and going through that stage in life shes willing to through it all away. Shes continuing to try but she says if she dosent feel anything within time she cant honestly continue in the relationship. Not only that she says she thinks our love has dissapeared and shes saying she dosent want a relationship. If we fall apart after my 4 weeks of fighting for her idk what will happen to me. I live for her yet she dosent see it. Sorry to get you guys involved but thats my story:( Or at least some of it.
 
Sorry to hear that, sad situation mate, it really is.

Fortunately, this is going to be hard for you to hear right now I know it is, this is a fixable situation no matter if it means with or without this girl.

If this is your first love, it only gets better after this mate, trust me. Your first love usually isn't the one you end up spending your life with. Through travel, new schools, and all the places you end up meeting new people you will find someone else. I know you may think that's not the case under any circumstance but I'm here to tell you that it is.

You're far too young to let your life be tormented by a woman.... There's a lot to life that you're going to want to see in the upcoming years that quite frankly is better spent not in a hardcore relationship.

I've been through everything you've been through and I know how it feels. I'm sure that a lot of other people on the forum have been through it as well. Chin up mate, chin up. You'll make it through one way or another.

Ok, /pep talk over ;)

Just remember, relax, deep breath, porn ;)

Edit: If you ever want to discuss it PM me and I'll shoot u my phone number and we can chat.
 
I truly understand what your talking about. Theres always more fish in the sea but this isnt my first love and like i said there are more things that i didnt explain. (no shes not pregnant o_0)
 
name='PP Mguire' said:
I truly understand what your talking about. Theres always more fish in the sea but this isnt my first love and like i said there are more things that i didnt explain. (no shes not pregnant o_0)
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I think you need to PM me with the other circumstance so that I may have a better grasp of the entire situation and give a proper analysis ;)
 
I am sorry to hear of your situation, these problems are very hard even though it has never been as long for me as 1 year.

I can say this though, as hard as it is to hear, there are a lot of women in the world. I know it doesn't help your current pain but at least it is something to look forward to.

Good luck mate, and you will be in my prayers if you believe in anything like that.
 
PP not gonna teach you to suck eggs or anything like that most of teh advice posted already is sense and come sfrom a forum full of people who care, which is why this place is great.

Another saying and taken from a song is that you dont know what youve got until its gone, perhaps with time she may realise that and want you back.

If she does not then that is how it is meant to be, karma finds its own way home.
 
If she does not then that is how it is meant to be, karma finds its own way home.
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Which is what im so afraid of. She hasent left yet and is still trying but im pretty sure that given another week we wont be together. Frag PM sent.
 
you may not see it now, but in the not too distant future you'll learn to live with out her, then you'll start feeling better without her, then you'll start dating again. I think its kind of dating cycle we humans go through.

Your no different to any other human, male or female. So dont feel that this is a weird thing. Its a part of growing up, i think we can all relate to things like this. But bad things in life can only make us stronger.
 
Shes been with me the better part of my life though and its not something i exactly want to give up. I know if i tried hard enough i could move on yes, but its the case of not wanting too. Its hard to explain, but shes the reason for why im even where i am now. She helped me graduate high school, she helped me keep my best friend, shes the reason i picked up music again and much more. Same for her, ive made so many good changes for her in her life to where she got off anti depressants, Xanax and feels good about herself. Just so much weve been through good and bad that i kinda dont wanna live on without her being right at my side.
 
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