Something isn't quite right, MrSmith... you should be able to go a bit further than what I'm getting, using a MAX over my vanilla AW9D, and Corsair Dominator RAM compared to my standard DDR2-800 G.Skill memory...
First off, you said this is your first build? Did you apply thermal paste (Arctic Silver 5, something similar), use a paper-thin coat over the entire proc, and screw down tight the WC block (not too tight, but definitely getting good even contact)?
Make sure your case has good air intake/ ventilation, sure-fire way to cook pc components (silicon stew?) even using watercooling on your cpu and gpu's... hope the room your pc resides in isn't hot either, like to keep mine about 66-69F.
Get the latest BIOS update, got a beta that works great from the ABIT website... download it, then use the Windows flash-update, works like a charm. (Could never get it to work on my ASUS A8N32SLI

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RAM: you should get 4-4-4-12 timings easily, check to see what the mfr suggests the voltages should be, and then up them a little at a time. Mine are rated 5-5-5-15/1.8-2V, but I can keep them at 4-4-4-12/2.25V (tRef @30 instead of 28 [believe that's default])... The tRef (tRFC) on its own enabled me to go past 390FSB, but at 38 my overclocking benchmarks sucked, gotta find how low you can go... Edit: almost forgot, if you manually set your RAM timings, make sure you switch to a 1:1 divider to start; if your RAM can handle the higher FSB settings, you can switch to another divider. The Uguru in the BIOS will let you know the estimated speed of your Ext. Clock and RAM in MHz after you make changes... let me find a picture... ah, even better is Kempez's review, look at the BIOS page and screenshot to see the 'estimated' part...
http://www.overclock3d.net/reviews....e=1&desc=abit_aw9d_max_socket_775_motherboard
You should be able to fiddle with the settings and just reboot if a setting doesn't take (crashes, reboots on its own, or wrestles with you and gives you a wedgie). You can try to go lower, but past experience hath shown that going for lower timings can really
off your BIOS if you go too low... be ready to play doctor and pull CMOS and clear using the jumper.
I've seen a whole
LOAD of C2D E6600's overclocked to 3.5, 3.6 on 3dmark05/06, you'd think someone held a clearance sale and you could get a trade-in rebate as well...
412FSB=3.708GHz
3dmark06 stable
3dmark05 stable (
program kept shutting me down at higher FSB's, even if 3dmark06 wouldn't)
Prime95 stable
That's stable enough for me.
If I think of anything else I'll let you know...
TJS