Erhm... that first part isn't supposed to happen and it also never happened to me between Chrome, Safari in OSX, the stock Android 2.3.6 Browser and IE on my WP8.
I believe you can change this in your settings somewhere?
The second part would be nice, especially since if there are 'background' ads (like now and previously with the Never Settle thing) and I click on any blue part on my phone (both my old Droid and WP8) it opens the ad.
I don't mind contributing to some money at all (if it works that way), but it's really annoying when you type an incredibly long post on your phone and you want to click the 'post' button but you click right next to it and it takes you to the ad. When you then press previous your post is gone...