@Megamindstorm: Calm down! We're here because we want to help, not because we have to! If you have an attitude like that people won't even bother to help you in the future.
@SieB: His response to your post isn't justified, but neither is yours. There will be no shouting on this forum
Hmm.. I sound a bit like I'm a mod in this post, which I'm not.. sorry
As for the cooler: I'd look at the Prolimatech lineup. They have some very good coolers that won't interfere with large ram heatsinks, but be prepared to lay down some money for them. Apart from the Prolimatech ones, there's the Thermalright Venomous X which is a lot like the Prolimatech coolers.