You can do it, mix cards, without the sli bridge. However, sli performance suffers without the bridge.
I put a link on here a while back but it was taken off...
For sli'ing two different cards, I think they have to be similar architecture - the example in the link is a 7300 and a 7600. They basically used RivaTuner to change the ID of the 7300 to match the 7600. This then tricked the system into thinking the 7300gt was a 7600gt.
The only draw back? The primary card has to be the lower performing one...
Instead of me paraphrasing from memory I'll dig up the link.
Linky